The best at putting his head down |
Until last week. We were scheduled to leave for the weekend on Thursday, grid night is Wednesday... so we chucked him in the trailer and went. My thinking was that he was pretty perfect last year, so why would this year be any different?
In case you are wondering, here are some reasons why:
1) He hasn't been anywhere in three months, which makes his world very small
2) I haven't put a lot of pressure on him in that time, so his tolerance for difficult things was reduced
3) He's feeling really great physically, which makes him expressive
4) He's just plain out of practice.
5) There was a big storm system blowing in
So....
Looking good |
He was a little vocal, but otherwise fine. I hopped on.
At first, all was well. We walked and trotted around and worked on settling in. It wasn't his best work ever, but I seemed to be getting his brain.
And then the wheels started coming off. He went all classic-insecure-gelding on me and started screaming for his girlfriend.
She screamed back.
Wheeeeee.
Going in |
We walked through a couple times, then went to trot. I was hoping that the walking would help him do things calmly.
Going out |
I tried not to get in his face, but he was blowing through half halts and ignoring me and then pissing off if I touched his face. I tried bringing him back to walk or trot mid-poles, and that was a no go too.
VROOOOOM |
See, when Courage flails, his whole topline goes hollow and he tenses the bottom of his body. His ears are practically up my nose and his legs are moving like pistons that don't go anywhere.
It's not hard to stay on, but it's very hard to channel that into anything useful.
Oh, and we started screaming and panicking even more. I don't think his girlfriend was even calling back to him at this point. We were approaching full-on melt down mode.
Oh goody. I don't really think it's productive to push a high-strung horse into a meltdown, because they're already reacting to pressure. Besides, I'm trying to string together calm, positive experiences to build on for the year. I don't need to teach him that traveling is scary. He seems to have a handle on that.
I broke it down for him and gave up on the exercise. We walked through the grid once in a relatively calm fashion, then moved on to something I thought he could be successful at.
Hellooooo trot figure eights.
I just serpentined him around the jumps and through the poles and made him focus a bit. It wasn't that great of work. He was having trouble going forward and continued to be very tense and scream for his girlfriend.
He managed for a while, but then we started just skidding sideways and giraffing.
I made him do a few more figure eights and then took him to stand in the group and just chill. We chatted with friends and stood on a loose rein until the group finished. Then I hopped off and stuck him in a stall until his girlfriend finished up the next group.
And he spent the next hour and a half kicking the walls and screaming like an idiot.
Still. Despite the fact that it was all in all a pretty un-fun experience, I finally felt ready to face the year. We could do so much better and I wanted to kick both our butts into shape.
It was time to get out there and DO STUFF.
It's good I felt like that, because we were scheduled to leave the very next day...
(to be continued)
PS Many thanks to Alyssa at Four Mares, No Money for all the lovely pictures.
PPS brace yourselves for the photo-extravaganza of awesome. SO. STOKED.
That's quite the vroom picture lol!
ReplyDeleteI honestly think that some horses are just not made to do trot poles. I pretty much flat out refuse to do them on Gatsby; no matter his mood they somehow get him strung out and insane...
ReplyDeleteAs long as you made out through it :) Things will just go up from there. Pretty excited to read the to be continued photo extravaganza of awesome....
ReplyDeleteYeehaw!
ReplyDeleteHaha, "He's feeling really great physically, which makes him expressive" - such a nice way to put it. I'm going to use that phraseology next time...
ReplyDeleteAnd my trainer always says the the 'throwing head up/inverting/flailing' is one of the hardest things to channel. My boy does the opposite (all of his energy gets contained in one little ball and he goes no where- except for up, sometimes- aka, bucks, ha)- but it is also hard to channel. My favorite exercise for channeling those melt downs is exactly what you did- I call them my "zen circles." I really have to control my anger, just be patient, and focus on keeping my aids consistent and letting him fight himself until we just settle.
Anyway, kudos to you for knowing when to take a step back and letting his little brain unwind. Hope the xc day went better!
Photo-extravaganzas of awesome are one of my favorite things ever! I can't wait!
ReplyDeleteI've also been learning lately that the better they feel the more 'expressive' they can be! Being fit is great, but sometimes it's actually a harder ride!! Can't wait to see the photo extravaganza. :)
ReplyDeleteThat sounds a lot like Lex to me. Sounds like you made the right choices. Even Excellent Horses are allowed to be insecure sometimes, and Courage is lucky to have a human with the right attitude.
ReplyDeleteTrot poles are haaaard and should be cantered, leaped over, and occasionally tripped over. Courage is not alone in his opinion of this!
ReplyDeleteI feel like you and I are so in the same place these days. You have to decide when yo push and how much so as not to frazzle them and to give them the best possible positive experience about all new things. It's a tricky balance. They should never feel over-faced and neither should you, but challenges are useful for you both. it sounds like you did exactly the right thing with him on that day!
ReplyDeleteFun!
ReplyDeleteIts hard to always find the balance of pushing and when to back off. I think when they are green, its worse to push into a total meltdown. Glad he didn't completely lose it and at least you got some good photos (and good not good photos).
ReplyDeleteI was very entertained by all of the vroooming! Too bad I didn't have my smaller lens on...
ReplyDeleteI've already seen the pictures and I'm still excited for the photo extravaganza!
ReplyDeleteI like that you made the exercise more manageable for him while he was busy melting!
ReplyDeleteWell done you, really looking forward to ALL THE THINGS :-D :-D :-D :-D
ReplyDeleteSounds like a pretty typical baby moment - I'm sure he redeemed himself the next day ;)
ReplyDeleteTrot poles stress me out, too for some reason so I totally empathize with Mr. C-rage. Glad you came through with a positive attitude!
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