We spent six weeks WALKING this winter. Free walk, medium walk. Rinse. Repeat. FOR SIX WEEKS. And yes, I ride like 5-6 days a week. In case you're keeping track, that is a SHIT TON of walking. Oh and. We went like 2-3 MONTHS without cantering. Because someone couldn't deal. So we didn't deal. We walked and walked and walked and when we FINALLY could, we started trotting.
Too exciting, it would seem. Courage is completely re-learning how to use his body. That's a good thing, but it's also an explosive thing. And it causes pressure. And remember, he is "pressure adverse".
Sooooooo even when we adding trotting back in, we kept the trotting slow. We rode under the rhythm for weeks. MONTHS. So slow. Lots and lots and lots of bending. Transitions. We never rode a straight line. Circles. Bending. Downward transition. Bending. MOAR BENDING. COUNTER BENDING. ALL THE BENDING.
|he learned his body can do this|
All very, very slow.
Most of this was in the indoor, which was good because it's tiny and makes the under-the-rhythm thing feel less pained than it really is. But then we moved to the outdoor and I tried to do bending AND forward.
That was a flail.
Truly, this is what makes Courage so hard to ride. He's obviously capable. I'm not stupid--I can watch our videos and say "wow, he's not really using his back or going forward and once he's forward a lot of the connection problems will take care of themselves", but the ability to recognize that isn't the hard part.
The hard part is explaining it to Courage at a speed he's comfortable with.
Which is slower. MOAR SLOWER. YOU SLOW DOWN. NOW GO SLOWER.
I was really excited when we finally got to work on lengthen trot in a lesson. I was less excited when it was pointed out to me that the lengthening we got was basically just the working trot I need. For like. Training level. Which is not the level we are trying to get to.
Headdesk. Go us.
But instead of curling up in a ball and deciding to give up on this whole dressage thing (while keeping the precious, of course), I've been asking for just a little bit more. After all, we've done MONTHS of basics, right? Maybe Courage is ready for just a leeeeeeeeettle push?
Redheadlins came out this past Saturday and took some video for us. It's mega boring (look! SB is trotting in a circle!), so you can watch it here and here if you want, or just look at the screen shots below, which is what I would do.
What I disliked was that I threw any sort of "roundness" or "connection" out the window. I mean, it was the expedient choice at the time. I know that if I throw too many new things in Courage's face at one time, he won't deal with it.
But is it so bad to want to look at a picture of us and be like "yeah that chick looks like she doesn't always suck" instead of just apologizing for all the things I know I'm doing wrong but can't fix right now?
Jury is out on that one.
Then Redheadlins came out again Sunday. I had watched our videos and I decided that if I had to let go of the forward thing, I would, but I need to step back a little and really just focus on getting a little roundness. (DQ alert: yes, I know you can't be "round" without being "forward", but until C learns the training scale, I will keep doing "a little bit of this/a little bit of that" and finessing and trying not to die.)
So anyways. Project Keep CRage From Sticking His Nose Out Like a Pony happened Sunday. He was tired. I was tired. We started slow. We discussed my aids and how he would respond to them.
I was so pleased. Courage not only acquiesced to trotting like a grow-up horse, but also when I asked for a lengthening, it happened.
|four off the floor|
If you watch our (also mega boring) videos (here and here), you will see that we spent a large percentage of the ride working in the canter. And that the canter is kinda yuck. I am also not apologizing for that.
I mean. We spent literal months not cantering this winter and finally now in mid-ish April, Courage is in a place where we can start working on the canter without him trying to leave. It took us that long to get here. Now we can get started. That's good enough for me.
We can skate by in training level sorta. I don't know if I can get his canter to a place that it makes sense to show in first level by next month. Maybe. Maybe not. Maybe we're doing another year at training level while I get this sorted out.
But maybe the road to first level is finally starting to look like something we can accomplish.
And THAT is really exciting.
Hell. Pig and I have to go back to underpowered lateral work every damn day. It's just what he needs to help him remember where to put his legs and that I'm not chasing him for being bad or about to beat him. Not that I beat him, ever (I'd be dead), but that's just where is brain goes. My horse is the equivalent of someone scared to jump xc, only in the ring, and just trotting around in contact.ReplyDelete
Deep breaths and horsie xanax please?
So, I wouldn't expect the need to go slow to go away. But asking for more forward now and then is a good idea. Remind him he can. Remind him he can go round. Slowly put the two together. But don't expect that you can just pick up the reins and go forward and together all at once. Warm up that brain. Show him the road to success. You're getting very good at it!
You know, I look at your journey with Courage, and lately, I am a little envious. Envious that I didn't take the time you did to really build my horse from the ground up. Envious that I *didn't* put in all the time on the fundamentals and basics you did. Because I was so focused on going and doing all the things.ReplyDelete
Lately you have been posting all these pics of you and Courage looking all bomb-diggity, and I'm over here thinking "Damn, I wish my horse looked like that". But you earned it. You did the work.
So just know that, while you may look at your pictures and videos and see what isn't there, there is someone out here looking and thinking "I wish we looked like that."
You are going to be a very finessed, very tactful, very refined rider by the time you get to First. Good stuff.ReplyDelete
I'm learning that sometimes you have to go backwards to go forwards, which is not fun and kinda doesn't make a lot of sense, but it DOES work.ReplyDelete
You guys have made crazy good progress, high five for not apologizing! His muscles are so incredible and you taught him how to build them in all the right places!ReplyDelete
yeah i had a grumpy 'pressure averse' mare (lexy, codename: the princess). i spent 6 months walking and trotting. mostly walking and halting. a year and ahalf into our relationship she took me to my first training level.ReplyDelete
patience now will pay off 10 fold later
Nothing to apologize about in any of this! You're taking the time to figure out what your horse needs and then you're actually giving him what he's telling you he needs. Just think of how great it would be if everyone did that!ReplyDelete
I admire you for your progress with Courage. Every time I see pictures or read about his aversion to pressure I think about your mare and I'm impressed that you keep going forward with him. For what it is worth I have never once thought why isn't she doing more with him. I see the pictures and think damn they are looking good maybe I will get Stinker to that point. Never apologize for going back to the basics. You guys are making amazing progress!ReplyDelete
I think you guys are kicking booty and I admire your patience!ReplyDelete
Moar leg. Moar forward. Always. Errrdiscipline ;)ReplyDelete
Keep at it, sister. You, my friend, are doing it RIGHT!
Slowing it down enough so that their brains can keep up is painful, sometimes, but it does work, and patience pays off in the end. He's looking good!ReplyDelete
hahaha this post was hilarious! But good luck to you guys!! Slow and steady wins the race ;)ReplyDelete
I think he looks very balanced and the last photos show that softness you worked really hard to build. He looks great!ReplyDelete
Never apologize girl - you know that special snowflake CRage better than anybody else and he is lucky that you are training him at the scale and speed and intensity that he needs to thrive. Nobody EVER regrets taking it slow in the long run!ReplyDelete